After a very long search I thought I found Mr. Right. After 9 months of dating, the man even showed me my engagement ring the other day. It's supposed to be getting sized. Yeah, right.
I ignored all the signals that something was wrong, I believed his excuses every time, and today I heard him on the phone with another woman. Just when am I going to learn?
But I can't sit here and cry all day. All I can do is thank God I learned before it was too late, pick up the pieces, and move more...
After a very long search I thought I found Mr. Right. After 9 months of dating, the man even showed me my engagement ring the other day. It's supposed to be getting sized. Yeah, right.
I ignored all the signals that something was wrong, I believed his excuses every time, and today I heard him on the phone with another woman. Just when am I going to learn?
But I can't sit here and cry all day. All I can do is thank God I learned before it was too late, pick up the pieces, and move on. Were it only that easy.
I don't think I'm asking for much. All I really want out of life is to be loved and wanted for who I am -- a caring, warm, loving, sensitive, and loyal woman.
Yeah, I'm not perfect. But I'm not looking for perfection either. I just want a good man who does his best, knows his priorities and has them straight, and above all can commit his heart and soul to just one person and not play games.
Just where did all the good guys go?
Sorry for the sobs, but I just need a shoulder to lean on right now... But the shoulder that I loved is gone.
It feels so odd to be here again. What are the days going to be like without the phone calls, my hug, that smiling face? Only time will tell... less...
Sometimes I get down on love and finding someone special. I wonder, is the internet even the right place to find it. I mean people can post photos and tell you everything they know you want to hear and play you like a bass guitar.
Some people say if you move really slow then you can get to know ther person better and find out the negatives about them before you invest your money or heart and meet them. However, some men are on these sites purposely to prey on women. Especially heavy set women more...
Sometimes I get down on love and finding someone special. I wonder, is the internet even the right place to find it. I mean people can post photos and tell you everything they know you want to hear and play you like a bass guitar.
Some people say if you move really slow then you can get to know ther person better and find out the negatives about them before you invest your money or heart and meet them. However, some men are on these sites purposely to prey on women. Especially heavy set women or older women. They think that we are desperate and gullable.
You are a special woman, and you are on this planet for a reason, never let anyone dim your light. Keep shining and your head held high !
Thanks so much! It's a work in progress and time will help.
Sometimes I miss him so bad I would like to call and say OK that we can work on this but then sanity creeps back in and lets me know that this is not the kind of relationship I want...
I appreciate the support from you and everyone else who has sent messages!
Thanks for posting. Your words of encouragement mean a lot. I've always been told you need to kiss a lot of frogs to meet a prince. I was simply hoping that a lot didn't stretch out into decades! LOL New day...better attitude. At least for now. One day at a time...
Thanks for the encouragement. A new day brings a more calm attitude. I appreciate the shoulder too. These things are never easy and I'd worry if they were. I hope our paths cross again but for better reasons and I hope all the best for you in your search...
Women play too. I've seen it in aquaintences and it is still just as wrong. Unfortunately, it is those players (male or female) that make is hard on the rest of us.
I wanted to thank you for commenting and I hope that our paths cross again.
Thanks so much for your post. Your supportive words helps a lot. You can't wallow in the mud and expect life to find you. So, I need to grab the boot straps, give 'em a good yank and go about life. I appreciate you taking the time to read and reply. I never realized that so many people actually read blogs. Someone, somewhere will appreciate what we have to offer...and it sounds to me like you have a lot for the right person.
I hope to chat with you again but if the o more...
Hi Quietnlonely,
Thanks so much for your post. Your supportive words helps a lot. You can't wallow in the mud and expect life to find you. So, I need to grab the boot straps, give 'em a good yank and go about life. I appreciate you taking the time to read and reply. I never realized that so many people actually read blogs. Someone, somewhere will appreciate what we have to offer...and it sounds to me like you have a lot for the right person.
I hope to chat with you again but if the opportunity doesn't happen, I wish you all the best! less...
I'm not going to tell you not to cry, go ahead and cry, get it all out of your system. You won't be able and ready to move on until all of that is out of your system. We all cry when we get hurt and sometimes, you can never stop crying and hurting, but only you will know when you're ready to move on, take your time, heal yourself first, then pick yourself up and get back out there with the rest of us, he's still out there.
HI, I JUST POSTED A BLOG NOT TO LONG AGO SAYING "IS THIS REAL"BY WENDYLUV IF YOU HAVE A CHANCE PLEASE READ IT .I,M SO SO SORRY. IT,S LIKE YOU ALWAY,S HAVE TO HAVE YOU,RE GUARD UP BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHO YOU,RE GOING TO MEET AND WHO IS FOR REAL AND NOT INTO GAME PLAYING,BUT PLEASE DON,T CRY BECAUSE THAT BREAKS MY HEART TO SEE YOU HURTING .JUST REMEMBER IT,S HE,S LOST NOT YOU,RS THE GRASS IS NEVER GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE .WHEN ONE DOOR CLOSES A BETTER ONE WILL OPEN THINGS HAPPEN F more...
HI, I JUST POSTED A BLOG NOT TO LONG AGO SAYING "IS THIS REAL"BY WENDYLUV IF YOU HAVE A CHANCE PLEASE READ IT .I,M SO SO SORRY. IT,S LIKE YOU ALWAY,S HAVE TO HAVE YOU,RE GUARD UP BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHO YOU,RE GOING TO MEET AND WHO IS FOR REAL AND NOT INTO GAME PLAYING,BUT PLEASE DON,T CRY BECAUSE THAT BREAKS MY HEART TO SEE YOU HURTING .JUST REMEMBER IT,S HE,S LOST NOT YOU,RS THE GRASS IS NEVER GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE .WHEN ONE DOOR CLOSES A BETTER ONE WILL OPEN THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON .DON,T EVER GIVE UP THERE WILL BE SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR YOU THAT WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU AND GIVE YOU THE UNCONDITIONAL LOVE THAT YOU NEED IF YOU EVER NEED A FRIEND OR JUST A LISTENING EAR I,M HEAR FOR YOU ....HUGS WENDY ;O) less...
Hi Michaela,
There is never anything someone can say in a situation like this that will help. Except perhaps that they understand, I do understand and feel for you .
Times like this dont always make any sense until later, and sometimes never.
I do hope that in time, your life will be so filled with the kind of love that you want, that this moment becomes a pin prick of the past.
I do know that you do have many shoulders here for you, and that everyone that has read your post, has offered more...
Hi Michaela,
There is never anything someone can say in a situation like this that will help. Except perhaps that they understand, I do understand and feel for you .
Times like this dont always make any sense until later, and sometimes never.
I do hope that in time, your life will be so filled with the kind of love that you want, that this moment becomes a pin prick of the past.
I do know that you do have many shoulders here for you, and that everyone that has read your post, has offered you one, even if they did not reply. less...
Im so sorry sweetie. Sometimes Love s*cks. He is not worth your tears. I know that's easier said then done but I hope love finds you soon and is kind. Feel better.
