There's a guy at work who started flirting with me last month. Finally, he asks me for my number and tells me that he would love to get to know me. Great. I'm open to that. So, I give him my number and he says he'll call me that same night. No call. I run into him at work, and he wears this cheesy grin whenever he sees me. We even sat down at break one day and talked. He seems like a really nice guy, but he never calls when he says he will.He doesn't have a cell phone yet. I found out later that  more...

There's a guy at work who started flirting with me last month. Finally, he asks me for my number and tells me that he would love to get to know me. Great. I'm open to that. So, I give him my number and he says he'll call me that same night. No call. I run into him at work, and he wears this cheesy grin whenever he sees me. We even sat down at break one day and talked. He seems like a really nice guy, but he never calls when he says he will.He doesn't have a cell phone yet. I found out later that he had tried to call me from the pay phone at work the day after I gave him my number. I missed those calls, though. Whenever I see him at work, his face lights up and he asks how I am. One day I asked when we're gonna hangout, and he said he's been busy. He claimed that when he got some free time he would call me and we would go out. The last time I saw him, he asked what my plans were for the weekend and promised to call me. He still didn't call. What is up with that? I would like to get to know him, but I'm not going to chase him. And if he's too busy now, we'd never get to spend any quality time together anyway, right? What do you all think? less...

I agreed with a lot of the comments here. He is just not interested enough, or he is just playing you. Remember actions and not words will show you really where you stand with someone.

for me.. don't get confused... this isn't a big issue at all. but i think u should take more time and do some research about him.. just in case you have an interest on him. if don't.. just leave it behind.. life goes on.

He's either playing games or not sure about you. Something is drawing him to you and something is getting in the way.

Mm? I think,he thinks,getting to know you,isn't that important...to him? I would,and have,moved heaven & earth,to find time to get to know a woman.Why would he be TOO busy,to get to know you or go out with you? Mmmm? Perhaps getting to know you/making time for you,is like too much hard work for him,if all he wants is to get a woman into bed? Some men have their own rules when it comes to women/sex.If things don't progress fast enough for them/us,the interest soon goes. It's like a 'carrot & stic  more...

Mm? I think,he thinks,getting to know you,isn't that important...to him? I would,and have,moved heaven & earth,to find time to get to know a woman.Why would he be TOO busy,to get to know you or go out with you? Mmmm? Perhaps getting to know you/making time for you,is like too much hard work for him,if all he wants is to get a woman into bed? Some men have their own rules when it comes to women/sex.If things don't progress fast enough for them/us,the interest soon goes. It's like a 'carrot & stick' thing...how BIG is the carrot,how long is the stick and how soon can thay eat that carrot. If the stick is too long,then they will NEVER get their hands on it/you...i could go on...Baz.xxx less...

sorry hon it sounds to me like he is involved with some one.. I know that sucks but I think that is what is going on... Good Luck Hugs

I am glad that your co-workers did not tell you that he was looking for you. He probably wanted to give you another line and get your hopes up again. Your best bet with him is to keep things on the "hi" and "bye" level because he will keep trying to play with your head.

I think if he really wanted to call he would have found a way. Why couldn't he make a date when you were talking in person? Why couldn't you talk on break or after work? I think you are too good for someone who will not even start off a friendship with respect for you. Move on....

Sounds like he is a PLAYER and A Looser!!! Toss him to the curb ,and move on with your life!

I hate to tell you this, but it sounds like a typical married man. He doesn't call you because he can't with the wife around. He is bad news. Stay clear of him.

Hey.

I hate to be so down on anybody, but have you considered why he can't call you from home? Is he even single? I'd have to agree with the previous comment. This bloke is hiding something from you, and as such isn't worth your time. Sorry!

I personally think that you should kick this to the kerb, as they say. Sounds to me that he may be already invovled. And as you said in your post, if he simply cannot find the time to even call you now, how will he make time for you when or if you get together?